http://www.washingtonpost.com?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxGet the latest advice column from Carolyn Hax and view past Carolyn Hax columns from The Washington Post.enCopyright 2012 Washington Post CompanySun, 26 May 2013 00:41:42 GMTSun, 26 May 2013 00:41:42 GMT15http://media3.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/hp/image/wp_web.gifhttp://www.washingtonpost.com?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c6131d0/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Eeven0Ein0Egrief0Efamily0Esnubs0Efiance0C20A130C0A50C240C14d7d130A0Eb7490E11e20Eaa9e0Ea0A2b765ff0Aea0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121130.html">online discussion. </a> </em> </p> <p> <em>Hi, Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>I have been engaged for a few months and my parents disapprove of my fiance. </em> </p> <p> <em>An extended family member is very sick and will probably not live much longer. When I was talking to my parents, my mother explicitly told me that my fiance was not welcome at the funeral, stating it should be “family only.” It is worth noting that the visitation and funeral will be published in the local paper and open to anybody. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-even-in-grief-family-snubs-fiance/2013/05/24/14d7d130-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c6131d0/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-even-in-grief-family-snubs-fiance%2F2013%2F05%2F24%2F14d7d130-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Even+in+grief%2C+family+snubs+fiance" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-even-in-grief-family-snubs-fiance%2F2013%2F05%2F24%2F14d7d130-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Even+in+grief%2C+family+snubs+fiance" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-even-in-grief-family-snubs-fiance%2F2013%2F05%2F24%2F14d7d130-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Even+in+grief%2C+family+snubs+fiance" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-even-in-grief-family-snubs-fiance%2F2013%2F05%2F24%2F14d7d130-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Even+in+grief%2C+family+snubs+fiance" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-even-in-grief-family-snubs-fiance%2F2013%2F05%2F24%2F14d7d130-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Even+in+grief%2C+family+snubs+fiance" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665322074/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c6131d0/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665322074/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c6131d0/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165665322074/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c6131d0/a2t.img" border="0"/>Sat, 25 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-even-in-grief-family-snubs-fiance/2013/05/24/14d7d130-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c60a483/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Ecouples0Esquabbling0Eshort0Ecircuits0Efun0Ein0Etheir0Eoutings0C20A130C0A50C220C3984640A40Ebcac0E11e20E89c90E3be80A95fe7670Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <strong>Dear Carolyn: My husband and I</strong> get in a fight almost every time we try to do something fun together, either alone or with our kids, who are both under 3. I do something dumb (say, forgetting some important item). Husband says something insulting about it. I get defensive and badger him. (“You were supposed to <span>. . .</span>”). He gets angry at me for “ruining our day.”</p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-couples-squabbling-short-circuits-fun-in-their-outings/2013/05/22/39846404-bcac-11e2-89c9-3be8095fe767_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c60a483/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-couples-squabbling-short-circuits-fun-in-their-outings%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2F39846404-bcac-11e2-89c9-3be8095fe767_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Couple%E2%80%99s+squabbling+short-circuits+fun+in+their+outings" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-couples-squabbling-short-circuits-fun-in-their-outings%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2F39846404-bcac-11e2-89c9-3be8095fe767_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Couple%E2%80%99s+squabbling+short-circuits+fun+in+their+outings" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-couples-squabbling-short-circuits-fun-in-their-outings%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2F39846404-bcac-11e2-89c9-3be8095fe767_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Couple%E2%80%99s+squabbling+short-circuits+fun+in+their+outings" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-couples-squabbling-short-circuits-fun-in-their-outings%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2F39846404-bcac-11e2-89c9-3be8095fe767_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Couple%E2%80%99s+squabbling+short-circuits+fun+in+their+outings" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-couples-squabbling-short-circuits-fun-in-their-outings%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2F39846404-bcac-11e2-89c9-3be8095fe767_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Couple%E2%80%99s+squabbling+short-circuits+fun+in+their+outings" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665321676/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c60a483/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665321676/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c60a483/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165665321676/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c60a483/a2t.img" border="0"/>Fri, 24 May 2013 20:32:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-couples-squabbling-short-circuits-fun-in-their-outings/2013/05/22/39846404-bcac-11e2-89c9-3be8095fe767_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c55e525/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Ethird0Ewheel0Eex0Econtrols0Ethe0Erelationship0C20A130C0A50C230C675196bc0Eb7490E11e20Eaa9e0Ea0A2b765ff0Aea0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>The chemistry in my nine-month relationship is awesome, the hard work feels minimal, and we stay up late and talk often.</em> </p> <p> <em>I’ve always wanted my lover to be my best friend. There’s only one problem: He already has a best friend, his ex-girlfriend of eight years (friend of 17). He broke up with her because it was an unhappy relationship and their counselor said it was “maladaptive.” He’s made it clear to her that she would be the last woman on Earth he would date again. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-third-wheel-ex-controls-the-relationship/2013/05/23/675196bc-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c55e525/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-third-wheel-ex-controls-the-relationship%2F2013%2F05%2F23%2F675196bc-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=When+a+third-wheel+ex+controls+the+relationship" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-third-wheel-ex-controls-the-relationship%2F2013%2F05%2F23%2F675196bc-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=When+a+third-wheel+ex+controls+the+relationship" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-third-wheel-ex-controls-the-relationship%2F2013%2F05%2F23%2F675196bc-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=When+a+third-wheel+ex+controls+the+relationship" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-third-wheel-ex-controls-the-relationship%2F2013%2F05%2F23%2F675196bc-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=When+a+third-wheel+ex+controls+the+relationship" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-third-wheel-ex-controls-the-relationship%2F2013%2F05%2F23%2F675196bc-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=When+a+third-wheel+ex+controls+the+relationship" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665243240/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c55e525/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665243240/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c55e525/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165665243240/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c55e525/a2t.img" border="0"/>Fri, 24 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-third-wheel-ex-controls-the-relationship/2013/05/23/675196bc-b749-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c474c59/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Ehusbands0Egrousing0Emakes0Ewife0Eseethe0C20A130C0A50C220Cc0A2ed66a0Eb7480E11e20Eaa9e0Ea0A2b765ff0Aea0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-120712.html">online discussion.</a> </em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>My husband has been unhappy in his job for more than five years. He refuses to take any of my advice about changing it — won’t see a career counselor, won’t go back to school, won’t talk to his boss about a position change, won’t visit a therapist — and wants to complain about work all the time.</em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-husbands-grousing-makes-wife-seethe/2013/05/22/c02ed66a-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c474c59/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husbands-grousing-makes-wife-seethe%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2Fc02ed66a-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Wife+is+fed+up+with+husband%E2%80%99s+complaints+about+work" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husbands-grousing-makes-wife-seethe%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2Fc02ed66a-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Wife+is+fed+up+with+husband%E2%80%99s+complaints+about+work" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husbands-grousing-makes-wife-seethe%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2Fc02ed66a-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Wife+is+fed+up+with+husband%E2%80%99s+complaints+about+work" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husbands-grousing-makes-wife-seethe%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2Fc02ed66a-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Wife+is+fed+up+with+husband%E2%80%99s+complaints+about+work" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husbands-grousing-makes-wife-seethe%2F2013%2F05%2F22%2Fc02ed66a-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Wife+is+fed+up+with+husband%E2%80%99s+complaints+about+work" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665069834/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c474c59/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665069834/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c474c59/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165665069834/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c474c59/a2t.img" border="0"/>Thu, 23 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-husbands-grousing-makes-wife-seethe/2013/05/22/c02ed66a-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c3a74bd/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Egirlfriends0Eodd0Ecomplaint0Eabout0Ebeaus0Efreelance0Ecareer0Esparks0Econcerns0C20A130C0A50C210Cb33da7f60Eb7480E11e20Eaa9e0Ea0A2b765ff0Aea0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>I’ve been thinking of asking my girlfriend to marry me, after several years of happy and fulfilled dating. </em> </p> <p> <em>The other day, for the first time, my girlfriend expressed that she really didn’t like that I work at home. I freelance and really love it. I have a lot saved and I’m in a much better financial place than she is, which gives me a lot of latitude.</em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-girlfriends-odd-complaint-about-beaus-freelance-career-sparks-concerns/2013/05/21/b33da7f6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c3a74bd/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-girlfriends-odd-complaint-about-beaus-freelance-career-sparks-concerns%2F2013%2F05%2F21%2Fb33da7f6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Girlfriend%E2%80%99s+odd+complaint+about+beau%E2%80%99s+freelance+career+sparks+concerns" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-girlfriends-odd-complaint-about-beaus-freelance-career-sparks-concerns%2F2013%2F05%2F21%2Fb33da7f6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Girlfriend%E2%80%99s+odd+complaint+about+beau%E2%80%99s+freelance+career+sparks+concerns" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-girlfriends-odd-complaint-about-beaus-freelance-career-sparks-concerns%2F2013%2F05%2F21%2Fb33da7f6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Girlfriend%E2%80%99s+odd+complaint+about+beau%E2%80%99s+freelance+career+sparks+concerns" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-girlfriends-odd-complaint-about-beaus-freelance-career-sparks-concerns%2F2013%2F05%2F21%2Fb33da7f6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Girlfriend%E2%80%99s+odd+complaint+about+beau%E2%80%99s+freelance+career+sparks+concerns" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-girlfriends-odd-complaint-about-beaus-freelance-career-sparks-concerns%2F2013%2F05%2F21%2Fb33da7f6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Girlfriend%E2%80%99s+odd+complaint+about+beau%E2%80%99s+freelance+career+sparks+concerns" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665066674/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c3a74bd/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165665066674/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c3a74bd/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165665066674/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c3a74bd/a2t.img" border="0"/>Wed, 22 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-girlfriends-odd-complaint-about-beaus-freelance-career-sparks-concerns/2013/05/21/b33da7f6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c2de488/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ca0Enew0Emother0Ewonders0Ehow0Eto0Eget0Epast0Ethe0Eam0Ei0Edoing0Eit0Eright0Eanxiety0C20A130C0A50C20A0C9ff5eef60Eb7480E11e20Eaa9e0Ea0A2b765ff0Aea0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-120712.html">online discussion</a>. </em> </p> <p> <em>Hi there:</em> </p> <p> <em>I’m a new mom of a pretty fun but challenging 6-month-old boy. I am a naturally decisive person, but the anxiety I’m feeling over making the “right” decisions or providing him the “right” things has been difficult to cope with. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/a-new-mother-wonders-how-to-get-past-the-am-i-doing-it-right-anxiety/2013/05/20/9ff5eef6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c2de488/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-new-mother-wonders-how-to-get-past-the-am-i-doing-it-right-anxiety%2F2013%2F05%2F20%2F9ff5eef6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+new+mother+wonders+how+to+get+past+the+%E2%80%98am+I+doing+it+right%3F%E2%80%99+anxiety" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-new-mother-wonders-how-to-get-past-the-am-i-doing-it-right-anxiety%2F2013%2F05%2F20%2F9ff5eef6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+new+mother+wonders+how+to+get+past+the+%E2%80%98am+I+doing+it+right%3F%E2%80%99+anxiety" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-new-mother-wonders-how-to-get-past-the-am-i-doing-it-right-anxiety%2F2013%2F05%2F20%2F9ff5eef6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+new+mother+wonders+how+to+get+past+the+%E2%80%98am+I+doing+it+right%3F%E2%80%99+anxiety" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-new-mother-wonders-how-to-get-past-the-am-i-doing-it-right-anxiety%2F2013%2F05%2F20%2F9ff5eef6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+new+mother+wonders+how+to+get+past+the+%E2%80%98am+I+doing+it+right%3F%E2%80%99+anxiety" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-new-mother-wonders-how-to-get-past-the-am-i-doing-it-right-anxiety%2F2013%2F05%2F20%2F9ff5eef6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+new+mother+wonders+how+to+get+past+the+%E2%80%98am+I+doing+it+right%3F%E2%80%99+anxiety" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664913436/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c2de488/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664913436/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c2de488/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664913436/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c2de488/a2t.img" border="0"/>breast milkTue, 21 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/a-new-mother-wonders-how-to-get-past-the-am-i-doing-it-right-anxiety/2013/05/20/9ff5eef6-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c230cf7/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ca0Emothers0Eloss0Eand0Ethe0Equestions0Eshe0Ecant0Ebear0Eto0Eface0C20A130C0A50C190C88245d4e0Eb7480E11e20Eaa9e0Ea0A2b765ff0Aea0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121130.html">online discussion</a>. </em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>I’m returning to work after a two-month absence. What was supposed to be maternity leave turned into a nightmare — my son was stillborn and I suffered a number of serious complications from a very difficult delivery. I needed the time away from work to recuperate. Although physically I am doing much better, emotionally I am anything but. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/a-mothers-loss-and-the-questions-she-cant-bear-to-face/2013/05/19/88245d4e-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c230cf7/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-mothers-loss-and-the-questions-she-cant-bear-to-face%2F2013%2F05%2F19%2F88245d4e-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+mother%E2%80%99s+loss+and+the+questions+she+can%E2%80%99t+bear+to+face" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-mothers-loss-and-the-questions-she-cant-bear-to-face%2F2013%2F05%2F19%2F88245d4e-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+mother%E2%80%99s+loss+and+the+questions+she+can%E2%80%99t+bear+to+face" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-mothers-loss-and-the-questions-she-cant-bear-to-face%2F2013%2F05%2F19%2F88245d4e-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+mother%E2%80%99s+loss+and+the+questions+she+can%E2%80%99t+bear+to+face" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-mothers-loss-and-the-questions-she-cant-bear-to-face%2F2013%2F05%2F19%2F88245d4e-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+mother%E2%80%99s+loss+and+the+questions+she+can%E2%80%99t+bear+to+face" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-mothers-loss-and-the-questions-she-cant-bear-to-face%2F2013%2F05%2F19%2F88245d4e-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+mother%E2%80%99s+loss+and+the+questions+she+can%E2%80%99t+bear+to+face" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664853685/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c230cf7/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664853685/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c230cf7/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664853685/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c230cf7/a2t.img" border="0"/>Mon, 20 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/a-mothers-loss-and-the-questions-she-cant-bear-to-face/2013/05/19/88245d4e-b748-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c1bbd8c/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Efear0Eof0Econfrontation0Egives0Ekids0Egreen0Elight0Eto0Ebully0C20A130C0A50C140C510Ac68f80Eb7320E11e20Eaa9e0Ea0A2b765ff0Aea0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <strong>Carolyn: I’m having trouble</strong> dealing with my violent niece and nephew, 5 and 7. I have two children of my own a little older. We are a tight family that (mostly, despite this big issue) enjoys hanging out together quite often. It’s common for the 5-year-old to hold my 7-year-old down and just swing punches. </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-fear-of-confrontation-gives-kids-green-light-to-bully/2013/05/14/510c68f8-b732-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c1bbd8c/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-fear-of-confrontation-gives-kids-green-light-to-bully%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F510c68f8-b732-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Fear+of+confrontation+gives+kids+green+light+to+bully" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-fear-of-confrontation-gives-kids-green-light-to-bully%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F510c68f8-b732-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Fear+of+confrontation+gives+kids+green+light+to+bully" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-fear-of-confrontation-gives-kids-green-light-to-bully%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F510c68f8-b732-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Fear+of+confrontation+gives+kids+green+light+to+bully" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-fear-of-confrontation-gives-kids-green-light-to-bully%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F510c68f8-b732-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Fear+of+confrontation+gives+kids+green+light+to+bully" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-fear-of-confrontation-gives-kids-green-light-to-bully%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F510c68f8-b732-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Fear+of+confrontation+gives+kids+green+light+to+bully" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664886763/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c1bbd8c/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664886763/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c1bbd8c/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664886763/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c1bbd8c/a2t.img" border="0"/>day careSun, 19 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-fear-of-confrontation-gives-kids-green-light-to-bully/2013/05/14/510c68f8-b732-11e2-aa9e-a02b765ff0ea_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c13457c/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Ethinking0Eof0Eplaying0Ematchmaker0Ehow0Eto0Ebe0Emonogamous0C20A130C0A50C170C98ad7b9c0Eb2830E11e20Ebaf70E5bc2a9dc6f440Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121130.html">online discussion.</a> </em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>One of my friends has asked me to set her up with a guy friend of mine. I happen to know the guy friend is not looking for the same things she is looking for and will probably (though not definitely) wind up blowing her off, even if he seems interested at first (which he probably will). Is it my job to share this with her, or should I just set up the initial contact and then butt out?</em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-thinking-of-playing-matchmaker-how-to-be-monogamous/2013/05/17/98ad7b9c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c13457c/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-thinking-of-playing-matchmaker-how-to-be-monogamous%2F2013%2F05%2F17%2F98ad7b9c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Thinking+of+playing+matchmaker%3B+how+to+be+monogamous" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-thinking-of-playing-matchmaker-how-to-be-monogamous%2F2013%2F05%2F17%2F98ad7b9c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Thinking+of+playing+matchmaker%3B+how+to+be+monogamous" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-thinking-of-playing-matchmaker-how-to-be-monogamous%2F2013%2F05%2F17%2F98ad7b9c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Thinking+of+playing+matchmaker%3B+how+to+be+monogamous" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-thinking-of-playing-matchmaker-how-to-be-monogamous%2F2013%2F05%2F17%2F98ad7b9c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Thinking+of+playing+matchmaker%3B+how+to+be+monogamous" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-thinking-of-playing-matchmaker-how-to-be-monogamous%2F2013%2F05%2F17%2F98ad7b9c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Thinking+of+playing+matchmaker%3B+how+to+be+monogamous" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664839278/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c13457c/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664839278/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c13457c/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664839278/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c13457c/a2t.img" border="0"/>Fri, 17 May 2013 22:02:42 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-thinking-of-playing-matchmaker-how-to-be-monogamous/2013/05/17/98ad7b9c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c070936/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Ecommitting0Eto0Esomeone0Etoo0Eyoung0Ea0Ebusybody0Egrandmother0C20A130C0A50C160C8dfcfe70A0Eb2830E11e20Ebaf70E5bc2a9dc6f440Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>My lovely, 23-year-old daughter is a romantic and wants to marry the young man she is dating. They have “officially” dated two years but were friends for years before that. They did not attend college together so are just recently back in the same town.</em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-committing-to-someone-too-young-a-busybody-grandmother/2013/05/16/8dfcfe70-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2c070936/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-committing-to-someone-too-young-a-busybody-grandmother%2F2013%2F05%2F16%2F8dfcfe70-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Committing+to+someone+too+young%3B+a+busybody+grandmother" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-committing-to-someone-too-young-a-busybody-grandmother%2F2013%2F05%2F16%2F8dfcfe70-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Committing+to+someone+too+young%3B+a+busybody+grandmother" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-committing-to-someone-too-young-a-busybody-grandmother%2F2013%2F05%2F16%2F8dfcfe70-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Committing+to+someone+too+young%3B+a+busybody+grandmother" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-committing-to-someone-too-young-a-busybody-grandmother%2F2013%2F05%2F16%2F8dfcfe70-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Committing+to+someone+too+young%3B+a+busybody+grandmother" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-committing-to-someone-too-young-a-busybody-grandmother%2F2013%2F05%2F16%2F8dfcfe70-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Committing+to+someone+too+young%3B+a+busybody+grandmother" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664693952/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c070936/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664693952/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c070936/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664693952/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2c070936/a2t.img" border="0"/>Thu, 16 May 2013 21:55:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-committing-to-someone-too-young-a-busybody-grandmother/2013/05/16/8dfcfe70-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bf9d5aa/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Ereaching0Eout0Eto0Ean0Eestranged0Efriend0Eafter0Ea0Efamily0Etragedy0C20A130C0A50C150C832183e0A0Eb2830E11e20Ebaf70E5bc2a9dc6f440Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121130.html">online discussion. </a> </em> </p> <p> <em>Hi, Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>I had a good friend in college, “Lucy”; we were inseparable, in each other’s weddings, etc. Over the past two years we’ve had somewhat of a falling-out, and I’ve kept my distance from her for a number of reasons. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-reaching-out-to-an-estranged-friend-after-a-family-tragedy/2013/05/15/832183e0-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bf9d5aa/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-reaching-out-to-an-estranged-friend-after-a-family-tragedy%2F2013%2F05%2F15%2F832183e0-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Contacting+an+estranged+friend+after+a+tragedy%3B+explaining+9+cats" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-reaching-out-to-an-estranged-friend-after-a-family-tragedy%2F2013%2F05%2F15%2F832183e0-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Contacting+an+estranged+friend+after+a+tragedy%3B+explaining+9+cats" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-reaching-out-to-an-estranged-friend-after-a-family-tragedy%2F2013%2F05%2F15%2F832183e0-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Contacting+an+estranged+friend+after+a+tragedy%3B+explaining+9+cats" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-reaching-out-to-an-estranged-friend-after-a-family-tragedy%2F2013%2F05%2F15%2F832183e0-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Contacting+an+estranged+friend+after+a+tragedy%3B+explaining+9+cats" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-reaching-out-to-an-estranged-friend-after-a-family-tragedy%2F2013%2F05%2F15%2F832183e0-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Contacting+an+estranged+friend+after+a+tragedy%3B+explaining+9+cats" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664662890/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bf9d5aa/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664662890/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bf9d5aa/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664662890/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bf9d5aa/a2t.img" border="0"/>Thu, 16 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-reaching-out-to-an-estranged-friend-after-a-family-tragedy/2013/05/15/832183e0-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bed436a/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Chow0Eto0Eget0Ea0Ecrazy0Ecat0Elady0Eto0Enotice0Eher0Edaughter0Eand0Egrandson0C20A130C0A50C140C78dc49380Eb2830E11e20Ebaf70E5bc2a9dc6f440Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>My mother is a crazy cat lady. She has been doing better in recent years, down to 15 cats instead of 40 or 50, motivated by the arrival of her first grandchild, my son. We live on opposite sides of the country and it was too hard to travel when she had so many cats. I come home about twice a year and I stay elsewhere due to the odor in my parents’ house. Certainly not ideal, but we adjust.</em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/how-to-get-a-crazy-cat-lady-to-notice-her-daughter-and-grandson/2013/05/14/78dc4938-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bed436a/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhow-to-get-a-crazy-cat-lady-to-notice-her-daughter-and-grandson%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F78dc4938-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=How+to+get+a+%E2%80%98crazy+cat+lady%E2%80%99+to+notice+her+daughter+and+grandson" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhow-to-get-a-crazy-cat-lady-to-notice-her-daughter-and-grandson%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F78dc4938-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=How+to+get+a+%E2%80%98crazy+cat+lady%E2%80%99+to+notice+her+daughter+and+grandson" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhow-to-get-a-crazy-cat-lady-to-notice-her-daughter-and-grandson%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F78dc4938-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=How+to+get+a+%E2%80%98crazy+cat+lady%E2%80%99+to+notice+her+daughter+and+grandson" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhow-to-get-a-crazy-cat-lady-to-notice-her-daughter-and-grandson%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F78dc4938-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=How+to+get+a+%E2%80%98crazy+cat+lady%E2%80%99+to+notice+her+daughter+and+grandson" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhow-to-get-a-crazy-cat-lady-to-notice-her-daughter-and-grandson%2F2013%2F05%2F14%2F78dc4938-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=How+to+get+a+%E2%80%98crazy+cat+lady%E2%80%99+to+notice+her+daughter+and+grandson" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664581888/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bed436a/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664581888/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bed436a/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664581888/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bed436a/a2t.img" border="0"/>Wed, 15 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/how-to-get-a-crazy-cat-lady-to-notice-her-daughter-and-grandson/2013/05/14/78dc4938-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bdf05e4/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Cmale0Ebonding0Ee0Email0Eoffensiveness0Ewhat0Edoes0Ea0Ewife0Edo0C20A130C0A50C130C6ca136c40Eb2830E11e20Ebaf70E5bc2a9dc6f440Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121130.html">online discussion</a>. </em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>My husband has had a close group of friends since his early 20s, and they communicate daily through group texts and e-mails. When we began dating, I found out that some of the guys send naked pictures of girls to each other or pictures of girls they were sleeping with. I found this so tacky. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/male-bonding-e-mail-offensiveness-what-does-a-wife-do/2013/05/13/6ca136c4-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bdf05e4/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fmale-bonding-e-mail-offensiveness-what-does-a-wife-do%2F2013%2F05%2F13%2F6ca136c4-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Male+bonding%2C+e-mail+offensiveness%3A+What+does+a+wife+do%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fmale-bonding-e-mail-offensiveness-what-does-a-wife-do%2F2013%2F05%2F13%2F6ca136c4-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Male+bonding%2C+e-mail+offensiveness%3A+What+does+a+wife+do%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fmale-bonding-e-mail-offensiveness-what-does-a-wife-do%2F2013%2F05%2F13%2F6ca136c4-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Male+bonding%2C+e-mail+offensiveness%3A+What+does+a+wife+do%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fmale-bonding-e-mail-offensiveness-what-does-a-wife-do%2F2013%2F05%2F13%2F6ca136c4-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Male+bonding%2C+e-mail+offensiveness%3A+What+does+a+wife+do%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fmale-bonding-e-mail-offensiveness-what-does-a-wife-do%2F2013%2F05%2F13%2F6ca136c4-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Male+bonding%2C+e-mail+offensiveness%3A+What+does+a+wife+do%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664439850/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bdf05e4/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664439850/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bdf05e4/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664439850/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bdf05e4/a2t.img" border="0"/>Tue, 14 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/male-bonding-e-mail-offensiveness-what-does-a-wife-do/2013/05/13/6ca136c4-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bd3c53d/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Einvite0Etruth0Eand0Edont0Esettle0Efor0Eless0C20A130C0A50C120C5f84c94c0Eb2830E11e20Ebaf70E5bc2a9dc6f440Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121130.html">online discussion</a>. </em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>My boyfriend of 1<sup class="frac">1</sup> <span>/</span> <sub class="frac">2 </sub>years and I are breaking up. Our fights have turned into World War III and he was tired of my being upset because I caught him lying to me a half-dozen times. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-invite-truth-and-dont-settle-for-less/2013/05/12/5f84c94c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bd3c53d/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-invite-truth-and-dont-settle-for-less%2F2013%2F05%2F12%2F5f84c94c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Invite+truth%2C+and+don%E2%80%99t+settle+for+less" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-invite-truth-and-dont-settle-for-less%2F2013%2F05%2F12%2F5f84c94c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Invite+truth%2C+and+don%E2%80%99t+settle+for+less" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-invite-truth-and-dont-settle-for-less%2F2013%2F05%2F12%2F5f84c94c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Invite+truth%2C+and+don%E2%80%99t+settle+for+less" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-invite-truth-and-dont-settle-for-less%2F2013%2F05%2F12%2F5f84c94c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Invite+truth%2C+and+don%E2%80%99t+settle+for+less" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-invite-truth-and-dont-settle-for-less%2F2013%2F05%2F12%2F5f84c94c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Invite+truth%2C+and+don%E2%80%99t+settle+for+less" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664359177/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bd3c53d/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664359177/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bd3c53d/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664359177/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bd3c53d/a2t.img" border="0"/>Mon, 13 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-invite-truth-and-dont-settle-for-less/2013/05/12/5f84c94c-b283-11e2-baf7-5bc2a9dc6f44_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bcbe7b6/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Ehusband0Ehas0Etrouble0Etrusting0Eagain0Eafter0Etwo0Eaffairs0C20A130C0A50C10A0C0A51e6fae0Ead0A0A0E11e20Ea1980E99893f10Ad6dd0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <strong>Hi, Carolyn: How do I start </strong>trusting my wife again? Three years ago, I caught her (52) having an affair with a 29-year-old aide who came to our house to help with our autistic son. </p> <p>One of my first questions to her was, “What did I fail to give you?” We went the counseling route, and as the months passed I knew she would text or write him, but I dealt with these things as they came up. She was repentant and wanted to make it work — and I love her. </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-husband-has-trouble-trusting-again-after-two-affairs/2013/05/10/051e6fae-ad00-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bcbe7b6/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husband-has-trouble-trusting-again-after-two-affairs%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2F051e6fae-ad00-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Husband+has+trouble+trusting+again+after+two+affairs" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husband-has-trouble-trusting-again-after-two-affairs%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2F051e6fae-ad00-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Husband+has+trouble+trusting+again+after+two+affairs" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husband-has-trouble-trusting-again-after-two-affairs%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2F051e6fae-ad00-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Husband+has+trouble+trusting+again+after+two+affairs" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husband-has-trouble-trusting-again-after-two-affairs%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2F051e6fae-ad00-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Husband+has+trouble+trusting+again+after+two+affairs" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-husband-has-trouble-trusting-again-after-two-affairs%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2F051e6fae-ad00-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Husband+has+trouble+trusting+again+after+two+affairs" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664371846/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bcbe7b6/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664371846/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bcbe7b6/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664371846/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bcbe7b6/a2t.img" border="0"/>Sun, 12 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-husband-has-trouble-trusting-again-after-two-affairs/2013/05/10/051e6fae-ad00-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bc628ca/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Chax0Ethe0Ehonesty0Eyou0Ereceive0Edepends0Eon0Ethe0Ehonesty0Eyou0Einvite0C20A130C0A50C10A0Cf82a15320Eacff0E11e20Ea1980E99893f10Ad6dd0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent online discussion.</em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>I’m a newlywed, and sometimes I get unnerved [by problems in other marriages]. Is it stupid to ask how not to end up in a bad situation? I love my husband very much, and I would really like him to tell me if something is wrong, rather than be miserable for years. I would like to think I could pick up on his unhappiness if it ever happened, but I wonder if that is possible.</em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/hax-the-honesty-you-receive-depends-on-the-honesty-you-invite/2013/05/10/f82a1532-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bc628ca/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhax-the-honesty-you-receive-depends-on-the-honesty-you-invite%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2Ff82a1532-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+To+get+honesty%2C+invite+honesty" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhax-the-honesty-you-receive-depends-on-the-honesty-you-invite%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2Ff82a1532-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+To+get+honesty%2C+invite+honesty" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhax-the-honesty-you-receive-depends-on-the-honesty-you-invite%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2Ff82a1532-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+To+get+honesty%2C+invite+honesty" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhax-the-honesty-you-receive-depends-on-the-honesty-you-invite%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2Ff82a1532-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+To+get+honesty%2C+invite+honesty" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhax-the-honesty-you-receive-depends-on-the-honesty-you-invite%2F2013%2F05%2F10%2Ff82a1532-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+To+get+honesty%2C+invite+honesty" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664286841/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bc628ca/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664286841/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bc628ca/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664286841/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bc628ca/a2t.img" border="0"/>Sat, 11 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/hax-the-honesty-you-receive-depends-on-the-honesty-you-invite/2013/05/10/f82a1532-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bb9c0e9/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Edemoting0Ea0Eformer0Ebff0Eto0Ea0Ecasual0Eacquaintance0Ebaby0Eshower0Edemands0C20A130C0A50C0A90Cebc9e15a0Eacff0E11e20Ea1980E99893f10Ad6dd0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>I have a longtime friend whom I once considered a “best friend.” We connect at the heart and have relied on each other a lot over the years.</em> </p> <p> <em>Several years back, she went through a tough professional transition and completely cut me off. Not because she was angry with me, but because she needed to move through it alone. I was devastated that she would not return my calls, respond to my e-mails, accept my invitations, etc. That went on for nearly two years. Ultimately we worked it out, and all was well for a few years.</em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-demoting-a-former-bff-to-a-casual-acquaintance-baby-shower-demands/2013/05/09/ebc9e15a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2bb9c0e9/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-demoting-a-former-bff-to-a-casual-acquaintance-baby-shower-demands%2F2013%2F05%2F09%2Febc9e15a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Demoting+a+former+BFF+to+a+casual+acquaintance%E2%80%99%3B+baby+shower+demands" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-demoting-a-former-bff-to-a-casual-acquaintance-baby-shower-demands%2F2013%2F05%2F09%2Febc9e15a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Demoting+a+former+BFF+to+a+casual+acquaintance%E2%80%99%3B+baby+shower+demands" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-demoting-a-former-bff-to-a-casual-acquaintance-baby-shower-demands%2F2013%2F05%2F09%2Febc9e15a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Demoting+a+former+BFF+to+a+casual+acquaintance%E2%80%99%3B+baby+shower+demands" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-demoting-a-former-bff-to-a-casual-acquaintance-baby-shower-demands%2F2013%2F05%2F09%2Febc9e15a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Demoting+a+former+BFF+to+a+casual+acquaintance%E2%80%99%3B+baby+shower+demands" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-demoting-a-former-bff-to-a-casual-acquaintance-baby-shower-demands%2F2013%2F05%2F09%2Febc9e15a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Demoting+a+former+BFF+to+a+casual+acquaintance%E2%80%99%3B+baby+shower+demands" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664211375/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bb9c0e9/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664211375/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bb9c0e9/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664211375/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2bb9c0e9/a2t.img" border="0"/>Fri, 10 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-demoting-a-former-bff-to-a-casual-acquaintance-baby-shower-demands/2013/05/09/ebc9e15a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2baf9985/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Cteaching0Ekids0Ethe0Eart0Eof0Egiving0C20A130C0A50C0A80Cdfd8cd0Ac0Eacff0E11e20Ea1980E99893f10Ad6dd0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121130.html">online discussion</a>.<a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121130.html"> <!--empty--> </a> </em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>Our son’s fifth birthday is next week. A birthday party will make for an enormous amount of presents, and we have this problem at Christmas, too. This year, I would like to have our son donate at least half of his presents to a charitable organization. My husband thinks our son is too young to appreciate charitable giving so we should instead just hide some of the presents and then donate them ourselves. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/teaching-kids-the-art-of-giving/2013/05/08/dfd8cd0c-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2baf9985/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fteaching-kids-the-art-of-giving%2F2013%2F05%2F08%2Fdfd8cd0c-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Teaching+kids+the+art+of+giving" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fteaching-kids-the-art-of-giving%2F2013%2F05%2F08%2Fdfd8cd0c-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Teaching+kids+the+art+of+giving" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fteaching-kids-the-art-of-giving%2F2013%2F05%2F08%2Fdfd8cd0c-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Teaching+kids+the+art+of+giving" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fteaching-kids-the-art-of-giving%2F2013%2F05%2F08%2Fdfd8cd0c-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Teaching+kids+the+art+of+giving" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fteaching-kids-the-art-of-giving%2F2013%2F05%2F08%2Fdfd8cd0c-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Teaching+kids+the+art+of+giving" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664149275/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2baf9985/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/165664149275/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2baf9985/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/165664149275/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2baf9985/a2t.img" border="0"/>Thu, 09 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/teaching-kids-the-art-of-giving/2013/05/08/dfd8cd0c-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2ba445c9/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Ea0Evacation0Evisit0Eby0Eboyfriends0Esibling0Ebreeds0Eresentment0C20A130C0A50C0A70Cd4d3355a0Eacff0E11e20Ea1980E99893f10Ad6dd0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>I live with my boyfriend in his elderly mom’s paid-for vacation home. She comes to visit a few times a year for a few days each time, and we are expected to provide meals and entertain her. I’m totally okay with this. When she’s not here, we care for the home as if it were our own: paying house bills, doing maintenance, paying for repairs, etc. Again, totally okay with this. I’m very thankful to live in her beautiful home with her wonderful son.</em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-a-vacation-visit-by-boyfriends-sibling-breeds-resentment/2013/05/07/d4d3355a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2ba445c9/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-a-vacation-visit-by-boyfriends-sibling-breeds-resentment%2F2013%2F05%2F07%2Fd4d3355a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+vacation+visit+by+boyfriend%E2%80%99s+sibling+breeds+resentment" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-a-vacation-visit-by-boyfriends-sibling-breeds-resentment%2F2013%2F05%2F07%2Fd4d3355a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+vacation+visit+by+boyfriend%E2%80%99s+sibling+breeds+resentment" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-a-vacation-visit-by-boyfriends-sibling-breeds-resentment%2F2013%2F05%2F07%2Fd4d3355a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+vacation+visit+by+boyfriend%E2%80%99s+sibling+breeds+resentment" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-a-vacation-visit-by-boyfriends-sibling-breeds-resentment%2F2013%2F05%2F07%2Fd4d3355a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+vacation+visit+by+boyfriend%E2%80%99s+sibling+breeds+resentment" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-a-vacation-visit-by-boyfriends-sibling-breeds-resentment%2F2013%2F05%2F07%2Fd4d3355a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+vacation+visit+by+boyfriend%E2%80%99s+sibling+breeds+resentment" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/164017254347/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2ba445c9/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/164017254347/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2ba445c9/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/164017254347/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2ba445c9/a2t.img" border="0"/>Wed, 08 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-a-vacation-visit-by-boyfriends-sibling-breeds-resentment/2013/05/07/d4d3355a-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b9736aa/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ca0Ewoman0Ein0Eher0E30As0Elikes0Etwilight0Eso0Ewhat0C20A130C0A50C0A60Cc67d62320Eacff0E11e20Ea1980E99893f10Ad6dd0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121116.html">online discussion</a>. </em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>My wife is an avid reader and enjoys a lot of different types of books. Among them are series usually geared toward teenagers, like “The Hunger Games” or “Twilight.” Before the premiere of the latest movie, she rereads the series and then goes to the midnight showing with a group of girlfriends. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/a-woman-in-her-30s-likes-twilight-so-what/2013/05/06/c67d6232-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b9736aa/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-woman-in-her-30s-likes-twilight-so-what%2F2013%2F05%2F06%2Fc67d6232-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+woman+in+her+30s+likes+%E2%80%98Twilight%E2%80%99%3F+So+what%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-woman-in-her-30s-likes-twilight-so-what%2F2013%2F05%2F06%2Fc67d6232-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+woman+in+her+30s+likes+%E2%80%98Twilight%E2%80%99%3F+So+what%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-woman-in-her-30s-likes-twilight-so-what%2F2013%2F05%2F06%2Fc67d6232-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+woman+in+her+30s+likes+%E2%80%98Twilight%E2%80%99%3F+So+what%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-woman-in-her-30s-likes-twilight-so-what%2F2013%2F05%2F06%2Fc67d6232-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+woman+in+her+30s+likes+%E2%80%98Twilight%E2%80%99%3F+So+what%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fa-woman-in-her-30s-likes-twilight-so-what%2F2013%2F05%2F06%2Fc67d6232-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=A+woman+in+her+30s+likes+%E2%80%98Twilight%E2%80%99%3F+So+what%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/164017184654/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b9736aa/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/164017184654/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b9736aa/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/164017184654/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b9736aa/a2t.img" border="0"/>Tue, 07 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/a-woman-in-her-30s-likes-twilight-so-what/2013/05/06/c67d6232-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b8c50d7/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Cbreaking0Ethe0Eice0Eand0Ebuilding0Ea0Erelationship0Ewith0Edad0C20A130C0A50C0A50Cb8412960A0Eacff0E11e20Ea1980E99893f10Ad6dd0Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121116.html">online discussion</a>. </em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>My parents are getting divorced, which wouldn’t have surprised me 10 or 20 years ago, but by now I thought they were fine with the status quo. How do I begin to build a (long-distance) relationship with my dad, who was physically present but completely emotionally inert throughout my childhood? </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/breaking-the-ice-and-building-a-relationship-with-dad/2013/05/05/b8412960-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b8c50d7/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fbreaking-the-ice-and-building-a-relationship-with-dad%2F2013%2F05%2F05%2Fb8412960-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Breaking+the+ice+and+building+a+relationship+with+Dad" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a 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src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/164017169899/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b8c50d7/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/164017169899/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b8c50d7/a2t.img" border="0"/>Mon, 06 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/breaking-the-ice-and-building-a-relationship-with-dad/2013/05/05/b8412960-acff-11e2-a198-99893f10d6dd_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b7dc855/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Ccarolyn0Ehax0Ewanting0Egreener0Epastures0Ebut0Ecant0Esee0Epast0Ethe0Efences0C20A130C0A40C30A0Cda0A834620Ea7820E11e20Eb0A290E8fb7e977ef710Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <strong>Dear Carolyn: Sometimes I think I’d like</strong> someone to rescue me from my life — someone to make it so I don’t have to work anymore, and I just sit back and not think about anything serious or responsible. </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-wanting-greener-pastures-but-cant-see-past-the-fences/2013/04/30/da083462-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b7dc855/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-wanting-greener-pastures-but-cant-see-past-the-fences%2F2013%2F04%2F30%2Fda083462-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Carolyn+Hax%3A+Wanting+greener+pastures%2C+but+can%E2%80%99t+see+past+the+fences" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a 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Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>Five months ago I met the guy I think I am going to marry (hooray!). We are great for each other in so many ways, and we have a great time together and I love him. He’s even talking about our future together.</em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-warning-signs-in-how-he-deals-with-his-ex/2013/05/03/c8a34b08-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b7f0433/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-warning-signs-in-how-he-deals-with-his-ex%2F2013%2F05%2F03%2Fc8a34b08-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Warning+signs+in+how+he+deals+with+his+ex" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/facebook/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-warning-signs-in-how-he-deals-with-his-ex%2F2013%2F05%2F03%2Fc8a34b08-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Warning+signs+in+how+he+deals+with+his+ex" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/facebook.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/linkedin/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-warning-signs-in-how-he-deals-with-his-ex%2F2013%2F05%2F03%2Fc8a34b08-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Warning+signs+in+how+he+deals+with+his+ex" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/linkedin.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/gplus/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-warning-signs-in-how-he-deals-with-his-ex%2F2013%2F05%2F03%2Fc8a34b08-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Warning+signs+in+how+he+deals+with+his+ex" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/googleplus.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/email/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fcarolyn-hax-warning-signs-in-how-he-deals-with-his-ex%2F2013%2F05%2F03%2Fc8a34b08-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Warning+signs+in+how+he+deals+with+his+ex" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/email.png" border="0" /></a></td></tr></table></div><br/><br/><a href="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/164017047286/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b7f0433/a2.htm"><img src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/164017047286/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b7f0433/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/164017047286/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b7f0433/a2t.img" border="0"/>Sat, 04 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/carolyn-hax-warning-signs-in-how-he-deals-with-his-ex/2013/05/03/c8a34b08-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b730b56/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Cdealing0Ewith0Ea0Ehusbands0Edestructive0Eold0Eflame0C20A130C0A50C0A20Cb856781a0Ea7820E11e20Eb0A290E8fb7e977ef710Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Dear Carolyn:</em> </p> <p> <em>My husband and I are newlyweds. He had a long-term relationship with a woman who turned out to be married. When they first started dating, she lied to him about her marital status. He eventually found out but, by that point, had developed strong feelings for her and did not end their relationship. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/dealing-with-a-husbands-destructive-old-flame/2013/05/02/b856781a-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b730b56/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fdealing-with-a-husbands-destructive-old-flame%2F2013%2F05%2F02%2Fb856781a-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=Dealing+with+a+husband%E2%80%99s+destructive+old+flame" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" /></a>&nbsp;<a 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src="http://da.feedsportal.com/r/164017020395/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b730b56/a2.img" border="0"/></a><img width="1" height="1" src="http://pi.feedsportal.com/r/164017020395/u/0/f/636550/c/34656/s/2b730b56/a2t.img" border="0"/>Fri, 03 May 2013 04:00:00 GMThttp://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/dealing-with-a-husbands-destructive-old-flame/2013/05/02/b856781a-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-haxCarolyn Haxhttp://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b66ec05/l/0L0Swashingtonpost0N0Clifestyle0Cstyle0Chow0Edo0Eyou0Eknow0Eif0Ethe0Esignificant0Eother0Ereally0Eloves0Eyou0C20A130C0A50C0A10Caa3844e80Ea7820E11e20Eb0A290E8fb7e977ef710Istory0Bhtml0Dwprss0Frss0Icarolyn0Ehax/story01.htm<p> <em>Adapted from a recent <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://live.washingtonpost.com/carolyn-hax-live-121109.html">online discussion. </a> </em> </p> <p> <em>Dear Carolyn: </em> </p> <p> <em>A column of yours on <a data-xslt="_http" href="http://wapo.st/RLguXT">breakups</a> brought up some really good points — the big one being, if you’re dissatisfied with a relationship, don’t fake it because you don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings. </em> </p> <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/how-do-you-know-if-the-significant-other-really-loves-you/2013/05/01/aa3844e8-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html?wprss=rss_carolyn-hax">Read full article &#62;&#62;</a><img width='1' height='1' src='http://feeds.washingtonpost.com/c/34656/f/636550/s/2b66ec05/mf.gif' border='0'/><div class='mf-viral'><table border='0'><tr><td valign='middle'><a href="http://share.feedsportal.com/share/twitter/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.washingtonpost.com%2Flifestyle%2Fstyle%2Fhow-do-you-know-if-the-significant-other-really-loves-you%2F2013%2F05%2F01%2Faa3844e8-a782-11e2-b029-8fb7e977ef71_story.html%3Fwprss%3Drss_carolyn-hax&t=How+do+you+know+if+the+significant+other+really+loves+you%3F" target="_blank"><img src="http://res3.feedsportal.com/social/twitter.png" border="0" 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